WOW! Thanks a lot for taking the time to read through the advice exchanges. I appreciate your comments and compliments. I'm honored and humbled by your words. It's my hope that anyone reading the content of this advice column will - through "Redd Speaks" - find the solace to beat back their personal fears and anxiety; and feel comfortable expressing any and everything in this forum, knowing that there is someone to offer sound advice without condemnation. My friend, you haven't missed anything. You found me at the right time; exactly when our paths were designed to cross. That is a blessing for both of us!