It is always my recommendation that you avoid trying to be physically intimate with someone you work with or go
to school with. If things don't flow as planned, it makes for an awkward uncomfortable situation. A discomfort you may have to deal with
on a daily basis. Anyone you want to be physically intimate with or intimately involved with should not be in your immediate space all the
time. Even people who live together need time away from one another. So they work, go to school, and periodically spend time with other
friends and family. They need that time and space. It's healthy.
Don't be deceived by what you see. You may see "horseplay" among the guys at school but it is usually understood
to be just that. I can't say what they are into behind closed doors. That isn't my place... I'm no psychic. Leave "bedroom" issues out of your
office and or school. Make the distinct separation between business and pleasure. You are in school to take care of business. Work out your
sexuality [pleasure] on your off time [away from school]! You're not "desperate," you're just anxious. You will have to control yourself and
try to divert your attention toward other things until the time is right.
You are young. You have time to explore. Don't attempt to do it all so soon. Your body is a precious treasure.
Everybody can't touch or handle precious treasure. It takes a special kind of person to appreciate treasure. Until that person comes along,
keep your precious treasure locked up. Otherwise, you may become a piece of cheap jewelry that any and everybody has access to [like so many
others have become]! Make your first time a meaningful experience so you don't live the rest of your life regretting what you can't go back and change!
From my lips to your soul...
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