Hey man! It sounds like you appreciate and celebrate being fourty (40)! I love that! That is definitely honorable.
I wish more people would embrace their chronological age and celebrate the gift that it is!
It is GREAT that you are fourty (40) years old, but don't make age the only defining factor of your life. You aren't defined by how many years you've been here. You are defined by the quality of those years. Spend [at least a little] time with people out of your age group. Spend a little time with younger people and older people. Hopefully you are mature enough to teach the younger ones and humble enough to still learn from the older ones!
"Sexy 40," check out www.anaheimoc.org! It's the site for the Anaheim Orange County Visitor's Bureau. Even though you are a resident, you'll still get slew of information to help you occupy your time. That site is an excellent place to find attractions (like the Flight Simulation Center and Drag Racing arena), beaches, museums, spas, eclectic food from around the world, and major events in and around Anaheim! With the hundreds of options to choose from, you're sure to find something for the forty (40) something crowd [of all races and orientations]! You'll definitely fit in somewhere! Let me know what you think and how it works for you!
From my lips to your soul...
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