I say go for the true friend first! That way, you will both let down your guard completely over time [since
you recently met]. Then you can decide if you still want more or if you work better as good friends.
Tread carefully on this one. You may want to avoid moving too fast [in this case]. It could scare him. Talk to him! Find out where his head is. That will better help you decide whether to take baby steps toward him [for good friendship] or take a huge leap in his direction [as an invitation for more].
From my lips to your soul...
Redd