Redd's Vocabulary:

INSANITY - doing what one has always done, but expecting different results; to be absurd; to think in extreme terms; mentally disordered or disorganized

Just as you have no interest in being a "top" there are people who have no interest in being a "bottom." The problem is, you have to stop trying to judge a person's sexual preferences and habits by the way they look. You are masculine and you are not a "top." So why would you assume that most other masculine guys you see are? You don't want people to judge you by the way you look or by the way you judge them, but you continue to do it. That's INSANE!

This isn't as hard as you are making it. When you really get to know people, you will find out what they actually like and dislike. You will find out what they are into. Many people don't tell initially because they don't want to be judged incorrectly or viewed as less than a man. Let's face it, people still haven't come to terms with their sexuality. Do you think those people are going to be upfront with their sexual practices? "MakemeCM," my words for you today are TIME and PATIENCE! You will find what you are looking for when you utilize the two!

From my lips to your soul...

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