I feel what you are going through, but you need a lesson in communication and loving yourself. This
man told you not to call him. He added a clause, "for a few months." But the main clause was "do not call!" What he's
really saying is, "we will communicate on my terms ONLY." That is the biggest RED FLAG and you missed it.
Redd's Vocabulary:
COMMUNICATION - process by which information is exchanged between individuals through a COMMON system of symbols, signs, or behavior
One key word in communication is "common!" Something common is SHARED by two or more individuals on an EQUAL basis. Healthy communication has to be mutual and on an equal playing field. When communication is NOT healthy, it leaves NO ROOM for anything else. It is a DEAD END!
This man obviously doesn't care about you so please don't invest any more time trying to persue someone who doesn't "love" you back! Love yourself enough to demand the respect you deserve. You need to be someone's EQUAL not their peasant! Get off the ground! Stop crawling like a snake for a man! Stand up and start walking like a man with some dignity! You deserve to be treated with respect and loved mutually!
From my lips to your soul...
Redd