If you pick your own statements apart, you may realize that the solution to your problem was there
all the time! After the initial encounter, you talked on the phone ONCE. But, here's the "kicker!" You said that you saw him
at the club sometime after the initial encounter, but "WE DIDN'T SPEAK TO EACH OTHER!" That's it right there. After you made
contact the first time, you didn't make contact again even after you saw each other! This guy didn't greet you when you saw
him again. Neither is he making any attempt to call you! You already called him once, but he didn't return the favor and he
HAD your phone number too. Your situation solved itself.
Just in case that wasn't clear enough. Let me put it to you in layman's terms: the gentleman is
NOT interested and you need to delete his number and try to delete him from your memory! It sounds a bit harsh, but sometime I
have to give a little tough love so that you understand. You have been chasing someone for three (3) years who doesn't think
about you from one day to the next. When do we stop trying to love other people when we don't love ourselves first? It can't
and won't work that way!
Hey, I LOVE YOU with the love that the creator puts in my heart! It's your turn to love YOU! You
don't need any CLEVER ADVICE, just some time to fall in love with the lovable person you were created to be! Here's the proper
order: I must first love myself [in a healthy way, not in a selfish way... there's a difference], then [and only then] can I
love someone as much as I love myself. Never will I love someone more than I love myself! Remember that!
From my lips to your soul...
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