You can change your location but, unfortunately, you can't change the MENTALITY
of a society! Guys in and out of town are (statistically) looking primarily for temporary sexual gratification.
So try not to wish that "somewhere over the rainbow" in another area you will find that perfect person who
will accept your status and sweep you off your feet. It isn't impossible, but it will take time, patience,
communication, and common sense to figure out who that person is [and where on earth he is]!
If by chance you are meeting other HIV+ guys in different states, you still need to
let time pass to develop solid friendships with them before you make a move you may regret! Don't believe every
bite you are fed by people you meet in the ultimate fantasy world [the infamous internet] with fantasy names and
fantasy profiles! It's unwise to try pulling a fantasy into your reality. People tend to say what they think you
want to hear. Especially when they are miles away and can't look you in the eye and lie to you. I'm not telling
you to completely ignore the seemingly honest guys in other states. I'm simply suggesting that you be careful and
be aware that humans are flawed from state to state.
I applaud you for your honesty about your HIV status! You are my hero today. I
want you to flourish and be happy with the person you are destined to be with. I wish that for your life! But,
don't rush it. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. It's also worth the time it takes to solidify that
kind of connection! "Change," your change will come [whether in Louisiana or somewhere else] . Just keep the
faith and keep working on "Change!" You can have what you want when you are what you want! Think about it!
From my lips to your soul...
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