"I will love you when you your hair turns gray. I'll still want you when you gain a little weight. The way I feel for you will always be the same, just as long as your love don't change!" Musiq Soulchild

The only things that separate a serious relationship and a marriage are legal acknowledgements and paperwork. However, we should be just as committed to the person we are with, even though there is no legally binding agreement. Your word is your bond! That's how we need to view serious relationships.

If you've committed to loving this person through thick and thin, then you will stand by him through the worst times of his life. If you absolutely have to have sex, then this isn't the relationship for you! You must figure out what is priority for you: the guy you love or having sex periodically! If he isn't worth more to you than sex, he doesn't need YOU in his life!

From my lips to your soul...

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